Me, again

September 2nd, 2010 at 12:51 pm

Michelle and Laramie Unruh (my cuz) and Me Unruh. Dave took this photo  (and I’ll have to change the watermark on it later to say Dave’s name, but I’m on my way out the door right now…)

Anyway, Monica Springer wrote a nice story about the Flyover book in the Emporia Gazette today: Flying High. (Love the headline.) And there may be a photo in the paper, too. I haven’t had a chance to check the print version (because I’m on my way out of town….)

Cheryl Flyover Book, life on the ground

Morgan

September 2nd, 2010 at 7:02 am

Our former neighbors were passing through town yesterday, or at least two of them, Brenda and Morgan – and they stopped in and bought a couple of books and came to see Tiger. Tigie was less than cooperative, but, you know, cats will be cats.

Dave and I  miss having them as neighbors. It was so great to see Brenda and Morgan again! Isn’t Morgan beautiful?! She always was. And always will be.

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Joe Foster

September 1st, 2010 at 5:45 am

Joe Foster played at the Java Cat on Sunday and Kevin Rabas read from his Notable Kansas Book.

This afternoon (Wednesday), Joe Foster will play at Emporia’s Farmers Market at 5 p.m. He’s worth listening to. I really liked his sound.

And then – come see me at the Town Crier, 716 Commercial, just a block away from the Farmers Market.

At Town Crier, from 5 – 7 p.m. (or longer if need be), it’s my Book Launch!

Flyover People: Life on the Ground in a Rectangular State.

Hope to see you there!

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The Lumberyard Bench

August 31st, 2010 at 6:16 pm

Today’s Flyover People column as seen in The Emporia Gazette:

Rozel (pop. 161) must mean “town of many benches” as they have plenty.

The Lumberyard Bench

When we were kids, my friends and I were bench bums.

Of course, we would’ve loved to have been beach bums, but beaches are hard to come by in this landlocked state.

So, my gang and I hung out at the lumberyard bench in downtown Pawnee Rock.

When the Clutter-Lindas Lumber Co. was still in business (I think it closed in the early ‘70s), the bench was occupied in the daytime by lumberyard customers, farmers and retired guys mostly, who sat there to catch up on gossip and rainfall amounts.

During the evenings and weekends, the bench was the hangout of pre-teens and teenagers. Even after the lumberyard closed for good, the bench remained.

When I drive into a small Kansas town these days, a downtown bench is one of the things I look for. Some might underestimate the value of a bench, but in a small town, it’s not just a place to sit, it’s a destination.

A bench is like the community’s front porch where adults can sit in twos and threes and share the stories of their days: tomato production, the granddaughter who has just started college, next week’s pancake breakfast at the church.

In my hometown of Pawnee Rock, we had that fabulous sitting spot. And heck, ours wasn’t just an ordinary bench, it was a full-service bench. As kids, we loved that place.

Attached to the front of the lumberyard, sitters could lean against the building. And there was a wide roof over the bench which made it a fantastic hide-out from summer rains. Two cottonwood trees grew between the sidewalk and the street, so it was a green spot of sorts which provided extra protection from the late afternoon sun. Plus, one of those trees was climbable, which meant additional seating for group conversations.

And best of all, between those two trees was a red water pump. The handle made a hee-haw sound with the up and down motion. Fresh, cold well water splashed out of the spout which was great for cooling off on August days, water fights, or just for scooping hands under into the stream for a drink.

Our bench was located at the main intersection in town and since the business district was only two blocks long, the bench was in the center of it all. From there we had a panorama of pretty much all that was going on downtown.

On the four corners of that intersection were the lumberyard (and the bench), the post office, the grocery store, and my dad’s woodworking shop. One could also see the comings and goings at the Pawnee Rock Dress Shop, Willard’s Welding, the self-service laundry and the beauty salon. Down the street, one of the taverns, Betty’s Café, was visible, so we could observe who visited Betty for a cold Schlitz.

The lumberyard bench gave us teenage girls a great location for watching “the wheaties.” Dreamy boys, tanned and slender, from Oklahoma and Texas worked on custom cutting crews and drove grain trucks during wheat harvest. They would line up on the side street next to the lumberyard for their weigh-in at Farmers elevator. This was definitely a highlight of the summer.

One might think that hanging out at the bench was just a way of killing time, but it gave us a chance to sit and watch our town in action, to notice things, to pay attention. We knew every resident’s car by sight – and by sound. When a stranger pulled into town, we could spot it a block away. We were friendly (well, desperately lonely) and we’d wave to the travelers who drove through town to visit Pawnee Rock State Park.

I enjoyed our spot so much that when I see a community without a downtown bench, it seems as if the town has declared, “Move along, there’s nothing to see here.”

A town is always changing and there’s always something to observe, something to learn.

From that one location, we watched the community evolve and change. We monitored daily life, small-town life. There were no big events that happened on Centre Street, but there was a lot of interaction, simple everyday connections. A bench is good for things like that.

Copyright 2010 ~ Cheryl Unruh

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August rain

August 31st, 2010 at 6:27 am

A rainy August day in Barton County – as seen through the windshield.

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Sandbar

August 30th, 2010 at 7:41 pm

Sandbar on the Arkansas River – at the Diversion Dam near Dundee.

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At the SouthWind Gallery

August 30th, 2010 at 6:28 am

That one in the center takes my breath away. It’s “Echo Cliff” by James Pringle Cook. He’s from Eskridge but now lives and paints in Tuscon.

Yes – there are incredible Kansas scenes up in the SouthWind Gallery in Topeka, now through mid-September, so when I have my book signing here on Sept. 15 (3-6 p.m.), there will be these lovely Kansas landscapes for you all to look at.

The exhibit includes three artists new to SouthWind Gallery:  James Pringle Cook and DeAnn Melton, Tucson, AZ; and Neil Patterson, Bragg Creek, Alberta Canada; and three returning artists:  world-renowned artist Stan Herd, and gifted fellow artists Debra Clemente, and Zak Barnes, all of Lawrence, Kansas.

“Chase County Sunset” by Stan Herd

Stan Herd – he’s mentioned in my book. In the column “Hangin’ with Louis and Stan,” I wrote about meeting those two guys (Stan Herd and Louis Copt) as they painted the “Spring in the Flint Hills” mural at 6th and Merchant in Emporia.

“She’s afraid of color,” Gary Blitsch quipped when he pointed out “Memories of Me” by Debra Clemente.

And here are paintings by Zak Barnes who knows the Flint Hills.

But Zak Barnes doesn’t just do landscapes. That’s his large piece in the center: Redline Decoupage. (And that’s Gary Blitsch, humble shopkeeper, standing on the right.)

When I stopped in the other day, I got to meet some of the SouthWind staff. Here’s Michelle Levian. Besides being the assistant gallery director and media designer, she’s an incredible artist: michellelevian.com

Here’s Dylan Clemmons, a student intern, and Apollonia Jamison, the design studio director.

They’re a great bunch of people and it’s a fun place to hang out.

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SouthWind Gallery sells the Flyover People book, so if you live in the Topeka area, this is the place to go!

3074 SW 29th Street, Topeka

Gallery Hours:

Monday – Friday, 10:00 a.m. – 6:00 p.m.and Saturday, 10:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m.

SouthWindArtGallery.com

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My Flyover People book signing event is here at SouthWind Gallery on Wed., Sept. 15, 3-6 p.m.

And you’re all invited. Please come – I’d love to meet you.

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And – the book launch is THIS Wednesday, Sept. 1 at Town Crier, 716 Commercial, in Emporia, 5-7 p.m. You’re invited. Please come to the celebration!


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The journey

August 29th, 2010 at 9:43 am

It’s like an out-of-body experience seeing my book on the shelves at Town Crier, at my hometown bookstore.

Even though I’ve thought about the possibility of writing a book since I was young, this doesn’t seem real, but there it is.

And it will seem freaky to see the book on the shelves at my public library, too. On the other hand, it will be nice if I don’t see it on the shelves at the library, because that means it’s checked out.

It’s been a long journey. It took many years before this book could claim six inches of space on Town Crier’s shelf. The writing wasn’t the hard part, although there were many days when I tried to pull sentences out of my head and what landed on the page was gibberish.

All of my life I have wanted to publish. And I had been planning a book of columns/essays ever since I started writing the column in 2003, but every time I began to pull columns together to create book, I hit a wall.

And probably no one heard about this wall more than Tracy, a friend who is also a writer. But I could never explain this publishing wall properly, even to myself. I couldn’t figure out how to get over, under, around, or through it. I mean, the writing was done – all I had to do was put the dang book together.

Of course, the wall was all in my head. All walls are, I believe. So I started cleaning out some of the darkness up there. I examined the dark and scary things in my mind, various emotional injuries and traumas, the self-defeating thoughts and behaviors, one by one, and began replacing them with better, more progressive thoughts. I began to look for new ways of seeing things, new angles, new perspectives.

This was a process that took me more than a year. I had created lot of mental garbage over the years and I had to clear that out. It took awhile. I began feeling lighter and happier. I began seeing hope instead of obstacles.

And then one day this past March, I met Tracy and Wendy (another writer friend) at Java Cat and Tracy told me about how she had put together a perfect-bound yearbook for the Kansas Authors Club and had it published by an online company. In one moment, it hit me – I can do this!

With the sesquicentennial coming up in January, I knew the book would have to be self-published if it was going to be out before 2011. And suddenly, I was OK with that. I had always wanted the prestige of having it sold to a publishing house, but that need suddenly dissolved. And my wall was beginning to dissolve.

Cleared of tons of junk, my mind (although there will always be some form of disruptive thinking in my head), was now able to see possibilities – and Tracy had just handed me a possibility. From there, it all fell together.

I asked my brother if he’d be my editor and he readily agreed. Leon knew how to publish books and led me along the path. If not for Leon and his guidance, I might have backed out of the process. But my wise and capable brother was there every day for me. Every day.

Things began to click on many levels. When I needed help, assistance, allies, they showed up for me. It’s amazing the good that can flow to you when you simply change your attitude and outlook.

I got quotes from several printing companies and chose Mennonite Press in Newton. Not only were they competitive in pricing, but I really wanted to have the book printed in Kansas.

The book was a lot of work. Even though the essays were already written, I was surprised by how much time it took, how much needed to be done – and how many times a book has to be proofed. (!)

And, now, looking at the published book, so clean and beautiful with Dave’s incredible photo on the front, it looks like it was a breeze to complete, as if there were never any walls to tear down. And maybe, like giving birth, an author forgets the pain of the process.

Creating the book was easy compared to the process of fixing my head, clearing out the old traumas, the self-inflicted issues, the old ways of thinking.

There’s that familiar saying:  When the student is ready, the teacher appears. And that’s true – when the mind and heart are cleansed and prepared and open, when the old ways of living and thinking are released, new and better opportunities can find their way into one’s life.

Cheryl Flyover Book, life on the ground

Sterling FD

August 28th, 2010 at 5:41 pm

As volunteer fire departments go, this is the nicest, newest building I’ve run across. Sterling is in Rice County.

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Sunset and sunflowers

August 28th, 2010 at 3:40 pm

Check out the great sunflower photos over at Window on the Prairie.

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In Nickerson

August 28th, 2010 at 10:37 am